Just because a pill is hard to swallow, does not make it the right medication. Just because something is hard to accept, does not make it true, and it does not make it right to say.
Many of us think that, in order to be considered lovers of the truth, we must constantly say hard things. Because we keep looking for hard things to say, we often say wrong things.
Friends, truth is medicine for healing others, not poison. Learn to distinguish between poison and medicine—usually, it makes the difference between life and death.